From
a young age I understood that my career is going to take front center while
marriage and children will be later in life. I always wanted to establish
myself as an individual prior to having kids. By the age of 24 I graduated University
and decided to take couple of years off before entering masters program in
order to pay off my student debt. During the time off I saw mostly all my
friends get married start a family. My fiance and I knew that we were not emotionally,
physically, mentally or financially ready to start a family and have kids so we
decided to hold off on that idea and instead get a puppy. It has been a year of
us being a proud owner to a miniature poodle, I couldn't be more happier with
the decision we made. Having a puppy
before children showed us what hard work and dedication is needed to raise
someone. Just as children puppies require
A LOT of attention and well structured day. Our puppy from day one was put on a
strict schedule, and diet. We taught her tricks, and how to behave when people come over. We showered
her with lots of love, and care. Most of our friends with children do not
understand that our puppy is our child, that we dedicated and still dedicate a
lot of time into raising her. Whenever we go out we constantly think of her being
lonely, and upset without us. She is constantly in our mind, we know we have to
walk her, bath her, feed her. Unlike kids when they grow up they can do things
for themselves, such as eat, play, use the bathroom, this wonderful creature
depends on us fully till the day she goes on to a better place. Some of our
friends look down on us for waiting this long to have kids, some say that ITS A
DOG not a kid she will be fine. What
most parents of human children need to understand is that she is our kid, we
worry about her just like they worry about their kids. We worry that she might
ran away, we stay up at nights with her when she feels bad, upset, we need to constantly cater to her
needs. Just like human children she needs care around the clock, we also need
to make arrangement when we decide to go somewhere on a vacation. Having a dog
taught us true meaning of love, she is a lovable creature, who is very loyal
and sits and waits for our arrival everyday home. She brings us brightness on a
very dark days, she comforts us when we are upset, she licks us when we are
sick. To all the people with children who look down on us, and say that she is
not a kid and she can stay home by herself for long periods of times- realize
one thing that she depends on us, she gets upset when we are not around, she requires
a lot of attention, affection and dedication. I know one day my fiance and I will want to have children,
but she will always be our first kid.
Amazing Summer Salad
1. Lettuce
2. Tomatoes
3. Avocado
4. Cheese ( Mexican)
5. Blueberries
6. Watermelon
7. Strawberries
8. Grilled Chicken
I would like to start this entry by saying that this is my opinion feel free to disagree with me by commenting on the bottom of this blog.
Mrs. Caitlyn Jenner is beautiful not doubt about that, she is a very strong, independent female. What Caitlyn did is very impressive, it took a lot of guts, strength to show the world who she truly is and has been for her entire life. I myself can't imagine living a lie of who I am my entire life. After 65 years of living with a secret she finally came out and introduced herself to the world, we the world learned what color she likes for her toe nails, what she likes to wear, how she likes to design her house etc. We can all agree that she found the strength within herself to come out after all this years. However; we need to pause for a second and think of all of whom she lied to, and deceived. For 65 years Mrs. Jenner was a role model not only for her own children but for many children in the World. Kids all over the world looked up to her for being an Olympian. During that era she demonstrated her physical strength, she reached what many people were to think impossible-she received the highest honor that anyone could get she was the best of the best. But now it seems like it was a lie, if she truly felt that she was a woman her entire life then she shouldn't have participate with the man in the Olympics but rather with woman, she birth kids as a man not as a woman. She not only lied to her wives and kids but to the entire world. Under false pretenses she won the Olympic medal, under falls pretenses she raised her kids. How is her wives who are heterosexual and had children with her suppose to feel now, how are her kids suppose to feel now, how is the rest of the world suppose to feel? We as a society including myself are very proud of her accomplishments of her coming out but we are forgetting one thing, she has a family, kids, wives who lived in a lie. The dad that once taught his boys how to shave, drive a car wasn't a man but a woman. The dad that talked to his boys about girls wasn't a man but a woman. The man who her kids confined in wasn't a man but a woman, the role model that many boys looked up to wasn't a man but was a woman. It took strength to come out but it is was also very selfish. She felt like she needed to come out. But.. how did her kids feel? wive? everyone around? It shouldn't have been done public. Mrs. Kris Jenner who fell in love with this masculine man who she spend 25+ years with him learned that he wasn't a man but a woman. Kris who is a heterosexual woman was lied to, was deceived. How is she suppose to feel? Her entire life was a lie she slept in a bed with a person who she taught was a man and not a woman, the younger two kids were not mentally ready for such a shock of a life time. And now Mrs. Jenner is receiving an award for being courage's? Displaying courage means that you have demonstrated an ability that not many can do. Fire fighters display courage, police man display courage, those who put their lives on the line to protect society display courage they are the ones who should be receiving this award, not someone who one day woke up and said I can't live with this lie anymore, not someone who was selfish enough to live her entire life as a man, have bunch of kids as a man, not someone who deceived not only her family but the entire world. We as a society should award those who are truly displaying a courage not someone who is selfish. Caitlyn did not feel guilty when she married heterosexual women knowing that she was a female in her heart, she was bringing kids into this world and raising them as a man knowing that she was a woman. What Caitlyn displayed is typical selfish behavior she shouldn't be awarded for courage. Her behavior should be frowned upon. I understand it was hard for her to live with a lie, but now her kids have to deal with the consequences. Caitlyn is selfish, person who is only thinking of her self. If she choice to have a family and live as man she should have thought of them prior to coming out. Caitlyn all her life demonstrated cowardly behavior towards her family, friends and the world.
